Lolas birth story is still pretty traumatic for me to think about. However, i loved hearing about other birth stories while I was pregnant so I would like to share it.
Chuck and I were scheduled to go into the hospital at midnight on October 1 to be induced. I was being induced one week early due to kidney infection complications. My doctor thought we only had a short window to deliver her without me having an infection. When we got there, and found out my cervix hadn't been dilated or effaced at all. They inserted a medicine to soften my cervix and it had to sit for 12 hours before anything was to happen. Well within a few hours I was having contractions. I tried to sleep through them and think I did a little bit. So by noon the next day, the medicine was removed, I was checked for dilation and still NOTHING! I was so bummed. The monitor was showing contractions 1.5 minutes apart for HOURS. How could I not be dilated at all? Well the next plan was to let me eat, and insert another 12 hour medicine. So I started to eat and then started feeling intense amounts of pain in my kidneys, and (sorry TMI) was peeing blood. My initial thought was, oh no another infection. The doctor decided to give me an epidural to help with the kidney/bladder pain and contractions I was feeling. I had a mini panic attack in the middle of the epidural due to the pain medicine they had given me. I made them stop and take a break after marking the area on my spine. My husband wasn't allowed in the room with me, so thank God for this amazing nurse who helped me through it by holding cold wash cloths on my face and neck and making me look into her eyes and breathe.
Turns out, epidural worked for pain and my doctor checked me again and I had progressed to 1.5 cm on my own during the "break" from the medicine. They decided it was finally time for the pitocin. I got some sleep that night! Though sleeping with numb back and legs isn't really sound sleeping.
My contractions were so consistent all night long, my doctor finally checked me in the morning and I had only progressed to 2cm. After another 12 hours I was devastated. Though during my exam my water broke, so I felt a little more confident things would start moving along.
Another check a few hours later and still NOTHING. My doctor gave me til 2:30pm to progress. He said I needed to be 3.5cm or more to let me go any longer.
Now my contractions were now less then a minute apart and im FEELING them. Even with the epidural. They were so painful and uncomfortable. My epidural was redosed twice, and finally 2:30 rolled around. I was sure things were happening.
To my disappointment yet again, I wasn't even 3cm. The doctor then asked what chuck and I thought about a c section. He thought at this point it was the safest thing to do since my water had been broken for hours. I was heartbroken. I was terrified. But all I wanted was my little girl.
At about 3:00pm I was being told and prepped for what was to happen before the OR and in the OR. There must have been 3 nurses in my room, my husband, my doctor, my mom and dad, my MIL, and one or two anesteisioloigists and they were all talking. I was having a nervous breakdown and just wanted everything to be quiet. At one point I told my doctor in a not so nice tone to "please stop talking" and he didn't listen very well. Though I know he was just trying to keep my mind occupied, I was trying to remain as calm as possible and not hyperventilate.
Eventually they were getting ready to wheel me into the OR when someone paged over the nurses pager "the air conditioning is out in the OR so it's REALLY REALLY hot in there" cue my next nervous breakdown.
At 4:04 they wheeled me into the OR, prepped me, redosed my epidural and started testing it. I felt every sensitivity test they tried. The epidural wasn't working. They chose to take it out and start a spinal. In my head all I was thinking was "just breathe and stay calm until chuck can come in"
After the spinal, I think I went into a foggy haze. I remember laying on the table and chuck saying "I'm right here babe" and the nurse responding "she probably can't feel that"
I couldn't feel my arms. He was holding my hand and I couldn't feel anything. Then I tried to say something, and nothing came out. So I tried to say "I can't talk" and nothing was coming out! My vocal chords were numb. Then I realized..... I also can't breathe, and if I can't talk how am I going to tell them I can't breathe. I mouthed it over and over to them and they told me "you are breathing, it just feels like you aren't because your spinal is really high and you're numb"
I was numb UP TO MY FACE! It was the scariest thing I have ever felt. Not talking, and feeling like you can't breathe.
It felt like so much time had gone by, when I heard them finally say "the baby is out 4:55pm"
I was so relieved even though I couldn't even turn my head to see her or ask anything about her.
What seemed like hours, but was probably only minutes chuck was bringing her over to me to see her and touch her cheek to mine. Even though I couldn't touch her or really even feel her, knowing she was out and okay was the most amazing feeling. 
They took her away and I pushed myself to get my voice back. They were stitching me up and I could feel the pressure and rugs but I kept asking how much longer til my arms weren't numb anymore. I was DYING to hold her.
I was wheeled to recovery where I started getting feeling back in my arms and getting my voice back. I felt completely out of it. I remember saying over and over again I was so out of it and exhausted but I felt like if I fell asleep I might never wake up again. I remember shaking uncontrollably and they told me it was normal. They were closely monitoring my oxygen and assured me I was just exhausted.
FINALLY my arms felt more stable and chuck brought our baby girl to me to hold. She immediately wanted to latch to me. I sobbed and sobbed saying over and over again "im so happy" Chuck captured that incredible moment for me on video. I'm a mess with wires and tubes all over me but I can't watch the video without sobbing uncontrollably again.
This little girl I waited for so long to hold, to meet, to see her face. To rub her head. She was FINALLY in my arms and she wanted to bond with me immediately. I was SO IN LOVE.
Since I was in surgery and recovery for so long, chuck was the one with her during her exam and bath, etc. What an AMAZING thing to see your husband so in love with his daughter. She absolutely loved him from the first second. I could see the pride in his eyes and hear the love in his voice. I was hooked!
Though I went through so much to get this little girl into the world, and my husband still thanks me for it, I do know that I would do it all again for her.
Because seriously...look at this face
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